"READING IS
IMPORTANT"
Because Dad had quit school early
in life, he always felt he was uneducated, but I think, and others have agreed,
he was really well educated. He read a great deal--always had a book he was
reading. He read the newspaper daily and subscribed to a number of good
magazines. One thing I remember about home was lots of books and magazines. The
girls, especially Cecile, read to me a lot. She probably wanted to keep me out
of their hair or they were hoping I would get sleepy at bedtime. As a result, I
could read before I started the first grade, at five years old.
"TELL THE
TRUTH"
Dad rarely ever told me I
couldn't do something. He would say, "I wouldn't do that if I were
you." or "I'd rather you didn't" and tell me why. Then it was up
to me. Sometimes I would rebel but then think better of it. I knew he had his
reasons. Since he rarely said no it had weight when he did.
Dad hated a lie and didn't have
much use for a liar. He expected us to be honest in every way. In the fourth
grade we were studying about Abraham Lincoln and how he walked six miles after
work to return a few cents to a lady he had overcharged. I thought that was
wonderful and was telling Dad about it. He said, "Of course, wouldn't
anybody do that?"
One time some kid came to the
house that I didn't want to play with. I told Dad to tell him I wasn't home. He
said, "I can't do that. You have to tell him yourself.”
I said, " Then he'll know
I'm here."
Dad said, "That's right. What can you do about it?"
"I'll have to tell him I
don't want to play with him.”
Dad said, "That's right,
tell him the truth but do it in a nice way."
"WATCH YOUR LANGUAGE"
Dad said when he was young he was pretty hot tempered, but I never
saw any of that in him. No doubt he mellowed with age.
I never heard him swear and he wouldn't allow me to even use
slang. My friend Evelyn and I were playing Old Maid one evening. I was the Old
Maid and I said, "BY GUM!”Dad said, "DON'T SAY THAT!"
Again, I was the Old Maid and I exclaimed, "BY Gum!"
This time it was, "STELLA! THAT'S ENOUGH!!"
The third time he sent me to bed. He would often say he couldn't
understand how anyone could believe in God, and use His name as a swear word
and, "By Gum!" was just a substitute for "By God."
He didn't take us to church nor talk religion he just live it.
People worried about us and women would take me to church or
Sunday School, but I never went regularly. When I came home to live with him I
went to the Episcopal Church as I had been going to it in Chicago. I tried to
get him to go with me, but he would say, "No, you go if you are
comfortable there, but I would feel like a hypocrite. I believe in God and
Jesus Christ. I believe in the Bible, but the churches aren't like the
Bible." He was so right.
"THAT LOOK"
He only spanked me once in my life. I was about 5 years old and I
wouldn't eat my peas at dinner and I was kicking the table. I landed across his
lap so fast. But he could give me such a look--when I needed a spanking ...
that I would go and hide and that would settle that. Most often all he would
have to do is look at me with that look that meant . l am ashamed of you .... and
I'd run and hide.
"WORK HARD"
ALWAYS GIVE A MAN A DAY AND A HALF WORK FOR A DAYS PAY. THAT MAN
IS DEPENDING ON YOU.
"GOOD HEALTH"
Dad was only sick one time in his life that I can remember. Some
people thought he had cancer, but we found out it was only a bowel obstruction.
The doctor, ‘picked up his stomach and slammed in back down again’, and it's
been all right ever since.
He ate very little meat, he ate very little supper and somehow
never got sick. When he died he wasn't sick, he was just sitting in his rocking
chair smoking his pipe and went to sleep. The doctor said he probably didn't
even know what happened .. a peaceful and quiet passing.
DEE BILLINGTON TIMELINE…SOUTH DAKOTA
ERA ..and on
1879 Dee
arrives at Deadwood after spending the summer in Bismark,
1880 Returns to Deadwood after a
winter in Denver
- serves as jailor for 4 years
1883
Nov Bull
Eagle (Cheyenne
agency) gave Dee a buckskin suit, peace pipe,
moccasins, knife scabbard, etc.
Dec. Jailor Bill ington
told Chief Crow Dog the results of the first trial by the Supreme Court.-
Deadwood
1884
Feb. Spotted Elk discharged from
jail, but allowed to stay the winter by Jailor Dee Bill ington-
Deadwood
March D.S. Bill ington
married Estella Loring Boyden March 19 Lead, S.D.
June Bud Bill ington
(Meriot-Dee’s brother) drives McClintock’s hack, Deadwood
1885 Dee
files for stock brand: DEE August
1, Lawrence County Register of Deeds
Aug Baby boy born to Dee and
Estella Bill ington August 25 -Deadwood
1886
Jan Bertie Bill ington,
age 5 months, son of Dee & Estella Billington, died Jan 26-Deadwood
July Dee Bill ington
kicked by a mule- Deadwood
Nov James Bill ington
(brother of Dee ) married Adelaide Beuter, Nov.
1
1887
March Dee kicked by a horse in the leg-
Deadwood
March Dee’s team hauling lumber, ran
away and plunged over embankment- Deadwood
Aug Son of James and Adelaide Billington
died, Aug 16
Aug Son born to Mr. and Mrs. Dee Bill ington (12lb): Leo Sheldon: Aug 22-Deadwood
Nov Mrs. Florinda Atkinson Billington,
from Kansas City visits sons Bud and Dee- Deadwood
1888
June Son born to Mr. Mrs. Dee Bill ington: Leslie Loring: June 2-Deadwood
Dee & Partner (James
Rogers) began livery business on Main Street in Spearfish
Drove Stage Coach from
Spearfish to Deadwood and back
July Dee Bill ington
has a new three seat carriage- Spearfish
1890
Sept. Daughter born to Dee & Estella Billington- Spearfish
Nov. Edna , Daughter of Dee & Estella died, Nov. 22 -Spearfish
1892
July Meriot
(Bud) and Cora Agnes Eddy married July 6 in Carrollton MO
Sept. Sidney
Albert born September 17 to Dee & Estella -Spearfish
1895
June Hazel
Atkinson. born June 24 to Dee & Estella-Spearfish
1899
Dec. Cecile Abigail born December 11, to
Dee & Estella- Spearfish
1901
June Jean
Lilith born June 11, to Dee & Estella-Spearfish
1904
Dec. Florinda
Atkinson Bill ington dies December 29,
in Kansas City, KS
1909
March Estelle
Margaret, daughter of Dee & Estella,
born March 6th Spearfish
Jean
Lilith died, March 8 - Spearfish
Estella
Loring Boyden Billington died, March 13-Deadwood
1911 Leo married Ashley Lawrensen
1914
Dec. Dee appointed postmaster Spearfish Post Office/ Main
Street, Dec. 29
1916 Hazel married Joe Colaw
1919
June Sid married Eva Sutton, Livingston, Montana
June 28
1922 Cecile married Roger Bishop,
Chicago, Illinois, June 1
1923
Sept. Dee retired as postmaster, September 1-Spearfish
1924 Dee worked for City of
Spearfish Parks -part time
1937 Dee wrote to Sid from Spearfish/visited
Montana
1938 Dee
moved to California
to live with daughter, Estelle
1944 Estelle Billington married
James Fontana, June 11, Carmel, CA
1944 Dee died, July 5, 1944 -
Carmel, California



